Take time rounding the bases because the saying is true.
If one person puts their hands or mouth on the other person’s genitals, they’re on third base.
If the partners are two women, then this model of “scoring” by “sliding into home” kind of doesn’t work.
Despite what Sex and the City episodes told us over the years, generally an afternoon coffee date does not end up with an impromptu sex fest.
However, when a first date takes place at night, over drinks or at a nightclub, there is the potential for a casual encounter to turn into much more.
When you're ignoring his or her main event space, there are other locations that become incredibly sexual. That place where the butt meats the thigh—it might a well be called Las Vegas because it's Sin City down there.
One of my favorite romantic memories, and I won't betray the perpetrator, happened in my kitchen, and it wasn't even close to first base.
It is easier for a man to rationalize and detach from a sexual encounter because they are simply programmed that way.