Equally they won't react to your bad temper with ease, because they don't really care about hurting you.I would also advice about people who are always adamant and never have doubts or reconsider anything they affirm.Heaven forbid you marry one of these arrogant guys! (I am a man, by the way, and I treat these guys with the contempt they deserve ...) If you understood personality temperament, you'd know that it is mainly the sexy-handsome guys that have the problem with being shallow. There are plenty of decent guys out there that would make excellent mates.
You said that a humble man is one who "has no interest in establishing his superiority," yet in the very next sentence you said that: "If he sees a spider in the house, he'll catch and release it outside." In some ways, that can be construed as an act of superiority (e.g. Well that a man desires you doesn't mean that he values you.
These women obviously doesn't see that behavior that way.
But imagine how sexy he will look sitting on the couch while you do all the cooking and cleaning. Don't let yourself get trapped into a relationship with an arrogant man. I mean, if you want a man (or woman) who's "sincere, fair-minded, and non-greedy," then you must also be sincere, fair-minded, and non-greedy.
Or just think how hot he will look in bed with your best friend. They are the very ones to use guilt tactics to get you to stay way longer than you should. But what confident person would think themselves as otherwise?
You love everything about him: the smell of his cologne, how he dresses, and how his eyes sparkle when he smiles at you.