You can arrange an "accident" to happen to the nighur.It must be emphasized though that it is sheer madness to become impregnated by a Negro.Not the elite race (I caught a bit of that on TV in the morning) but the masses that followed on behind – the hundreds tens of thousands of fun …
While I was becoming true to myself, the world changed.
What I couldn’t know then was whether I truly wanted children, or whether I just wanted to prove wrong everyone who had pitied me.
I spent years drifting between relationships with men and with women; I was mildly bisexual in a fluid era, but if children hadn’t been part of the equation, I wouldn’t have bothered with the other half.
Even though I was in love with some of the women I dated, I felt mildly fraudulent in those intimacies.
Shortly after I met John, who is now my husband, we ran into his friends Laura and Tammy and their toddler, Oliver, at the 2001 Minnesota State Fair.