Younger men offer the cougar an exciting dating life that she may have not experienced before.
But if there is an expectation for a serious relationship, then seek a younger man who wants the same. By being on the same page in the beginning, it will prevent frustration and heartbreak later if he doesn’t want the same thing. These discussions don’t have to happen on the first date. Are you the type that likes to dance until dawn or is a quiet night home with a movie more your level?
Also in early conversations, find out what he wants from the relationship. But as your relationship progresses, it’s best to tackle them head on as it steers the relationship in the direction that you want. Many younger guys do a lot of social things during the week.
It starts off innocent such as letting him borrow money or moving in if he doesn’t have a place to stay.
Watch out for the early signs and avoid this type because he is not looking for a confident woman who can contribute to the relationship.
If you can’t keep up, find a guy that is more your speed. Don’t be afraid to say that you don’t like baseball or hanging out at the bar.