That way, you're not completely disappointed when his kids come first.2. If you are the type of woman who likes to go on extravagant dates and adventurous activities, you may have to lower your expectations.
Having kids is expensive, especially when you factor in diapers, clothes, food, health and dental care.
Before the conversation ends, he asks for your name and number so the two of you can continue talking over the phone.
Just as soon as you thought your prayers have finally been answered, he tells you he'll call you once he drops off the kids..his baby momma's house. So what's a woman to do when she meets a single dad?
If he is a generous man, he'll want to give his kids the best life he can afford.
The more generous he is with his kids, the less money he'll have to spend on you. Be prepared to pay for a few dates here and there, or be creative with low cost activities that the two of you can enjoy together, like hiking, picnics and free concerts.3. When you're in a relationship with a man with kids, you're really in a relationship with his kids, his kids' mother, his own mother—Remember, his family was there before you came into his life.
They are more of a certainty because they have history with him — and he'll be mindful of this when placing his priorities.